OT: Cross your fingers

Jan 06, 2008 19 Replies
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We're crunching the numbers and god bless Uncle Ralph he is in negotiation mode but we are trying to offer on this location. not a lot of room for Scrapbooking supplies but since I'm not a clothes horse I can sacrifice closet space.



We're going to the broker as soon as I hear back from my lender.



Ladies don't wimper too much everyone is welcome to visit should we get it & Dave there is room for you should you wish to brave NYC again.:



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Kate that is wonderful. It looks like a great place. My fingers and toes are crossed for you. Good luck

Kate, that's awesome. It looks very nice. My fingers are crossed. I wish you the best and good luck!

~Crystal

My fingers are crossed. It looks real nice with a beautiful kitchen and great closet space! Hope it all works out for you!

M-C

Hope all goes well. My fingers are crossed too! Sandy

Really sounds wonderful Kate. Crossing my fingers for you!

Lynne

My fingers are crossed for you!

Great looking place, Kate! Best of luck in getting it!

Mel K

I too have my fingers crossed for you!!! I love all the built ins!!!! What a beautiful space!

I'm so done.

We told Uncle Ralph to write an offer for "X" amount of dollars and have them pay for closing costs. It was a fair offer. We waited a few days and today I heard that my IN LAWS killed the deal as they haven't seen the unit and we aren't ALLOWED to make an offer without their OK. Given the fact they aren't being asked for any money or anything. The last time we were househunting (back in 2000) the only time they saw the house was when we were having it INSPECTED.

I've since found out that there was another offer on the unit and it was accepted.

Larry's response is "why are you in such a hurry to move, we'll find a better place." I give up. I'm on strike. No more finding how to save another nickle, dime or penny. No more digging through the boxes for proof of debt payment.

Right now I'm so physically spent that I don't even want to scrap. I just don't have it in me.

I love everyone but I just want to have an old fashioned pitty party and cry.

xoxo Kate

{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}

I'm sorry the deal fell through due to the intervention of others. :*( I'll keep saying a prayer that the PERFECT place will open up for you before you know it! Hang in there!

Carolyne > I'm so done.

Oh Kate! How disappointing.........sounds like someone just can't let go. As a parent of three grown children I learned early to never offer advice unless asked and then to be very careful so it would not come back to bite me in the butt. I don't interfere with their marriages, children or decisions. I have had to bite my tongue on many occasions, but I know mistakes are a learning experience as are the successes. It's very hard dealing with family. Hang in there, Hugs, Sandy

I'm sorry Kate. You never know, god works in mysterious ways. Hopefully, Larry will see the light. I'm sure if it was the other way around, as they say.

Here's a big Hug for you!

Awww, Kate. Big Bug Cyber Hugs! I'm so sorry to hear this and all because of other people. Things will turn around and brighten up for you, I'm sure. Take care.

~Crystal

Oh Kate! I am so rry! Why do the inlaws have to intervine? If you want to have an oldfashion pitty party and cry go ahead, I think you are intitled. I can't imagine how disappointed you must feel. {{{{HUGS}}}}

Oh Kate I'm so sorry, that stinks. {{{{HUGS}}}} Go ahead and have a good cry and then keep looking. You will find something wonderful.

I dont understand their interference in your lives! Surely they want you to get your own place??! I feel for ya...go ahead and have that cry. You deserve it. ((big hugs)) Sometimes things happen for a reason, so dont give up! You will find the right place!

Linda

oh - Kate!!!! I feel for you - have a good cry - you deserve it. And to be angry and frustrated too!!!!!!!

((((((((HUGS))))))))))))) We love you, and I know you'll find the right HOME soon!!

Jessica

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