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On Sat, 24 Jun 2006 00:53:51 +0200, Magie Noire spun a fine yarn
Again, if people read through the entire thread, they'd see that we all DID include everyone. Noreen who only has ONE person she never ever wants to meet and would never name 'it' here.
What is the purpose of repeatedly making references to this mystery person YOU don't like? If I don't like someone I keep it to myself-after all anyone else has a right to like them as they choose. Marie and the cats- who wasn't on the list either but who cares
YarnWright wrote:
On 23 Jun 2006 17:55:07 -0700, snipped-for-privacy@hotmail.com spun a fine yarn
Repeatedly????? Surely you jest???????????
Noreen
Ahem: Let me rephrase the question: What is the PURPOSE of making UNNECESSARY and HURTFUL comments????
YarnWright wrote:
On 23 Jun 2006 23:44:06 -0700, snipped-for-privacy@hotmail.com spun a fine yarn
WTF? methinks you are very confused.
Oooo...for some reason, part of your post is missing: Noreen siad "there is ONE person on this group I never ever want to meet". And Bienchat is patiently waiting for Noreen to tell her
What is the PURPOSE of making UNNECESSARY and HURTFUL comments?
No, Bienchat is NOT confused and it is not necessary to say WTF to Bienchat.
YarnWright wrote:
On 24 Jun 2006 08:09:58 -0700, snipped-for-privacy@hotmail.com spun a fine yarn
I would suggest you take this offlist if you have issue with me Marie! I said it ONCE, you siad I kept saying it. You wanted to keep dragging it up, I said WTF. Done, end of story.
Noreen
Maybe,noreen, she is talking about the person that you have said in posts at least twice that you don't like and that is on your _h_t list and suspected was a troll behind the forgeries. i think what she is saying, noreen, is that you HAVE posted several times that there is a person or persons on this group that you don't like, you even told us where they were from (the midwest and the pacific northwest), and Marie is simply stating that it is not necessary to keep broadcasting this, and then feigning ignorance. if you will really intend for it to be "end of story" as you write, then the jabs from you will stop also. That would be nice, as this seemed in other ways to be a friendly gathering, and I don't think anyone cares much about who you like or don't like, but it can be hurtful to people.
On Sat, 24 Jun 2006 11:26:19 -0500, barbie spun a fine yarn
Duly noted. Now, if only I got the same courtesy. People think nothing of jumping all over me, so I'm now just starting to fight back. Noreen dropping it.
Hi Marie, thanks much for your comments. I haven't seen you here recently. How have you been?
Hi Barbie, are you the one who was yarn shopping in the Twin Cities last year?
Thank you Barbie.
barbie wrote:
No, I'll do it all publicly, like you do. Why are you so EVASIVE and refuse to answer my simple question?
What is the PURPOSE of making UNNECESSARY and HURTFUL comments?
Why don't you answer? You have plenty of *opinions* and are able to express yourself, so why can't you answer this question? And no, it is not necessary to resort to profanity by saying WTF. We are adults and able to have a civilized conversation without baseness, profanity, evasiveness, accusations, fingerpointing etc. I am not *keep dragging it up* I asked you a SIMPLE QUESTION and you REFUSE to answer it. WHY???????
WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF MAKING UNNECESSARY AND HURTFUL COMMENTS?
YarnWright wrote:
On 24 Jun 2006 17:43:03 -0700, snipped-for-privacy@hotmail.com spun a fine yarn
I just figured it out, this isn't really Marie! But, I'll play the game. I refuse to answer a question that makes absolutely no sense. The original question STATED it was just for fun. It was NOT, nor should it have been taken as hurtful. If you took it in less than the true spirit it was meant, that is your problem, not mine. As for being evasive. The reason I don't name the person is because I don't have to. Simple enough?
Noreen
No, it really is me. The question DOES make sense, but you refuse to answer it. I really would like to know WHY- What is the PURPOSE/REASON of making UNNECESSARY and HURTFUL comments? Can you find it in yourself to really THINK about it and give an honest answer, if not to me then to yourself?
I had no original question that stated it was just for fun.
You know well, that my mention of being evasive has nothing to do with any NAMES but rather the REASON/PURPOSE of making UNNECESSARY and HURTFUL comments and you REFUSE to give an answer, choosing instead to;
You've tried every psychological trick in the book to avoid answering my question-but believe it or not- YES!!!! other people have brains and are fully capable of figuring out for themselves exactly why the UNNECESSARY and HURTFUL comments occur. Maybe you refuse to face the truth about your behavior - which is UNACCEPTABLE by the way and don't want to embarrass yourself by ANSWERING my simple question.
So far this year we have all been *treated* to you picking fights with several members of the group here-namely Nora and Stella- who I like very much and found the nit-picking to be very offensive and out of place on this forum. You have made reference on several previous posts about people you don't like. You caused a big ruckus about YOU wanting to be in control of the 6 x 6 monthly square exchange, causing a number of people to feel so badly that they dropped out of said exchange. You accused people of purposefully keeping you out of the new Yarners group. A couple of days ago, you started making comments about the people YOU would like to meet, which I can tell caused some hurt feelings and then you topped it off with your latest- By saying QUOTE: * there is ONE person on this group I never ever want to meet".
Are you finished yet? Thanks for hurting so many feelings Noreen.
Life is SHORT and we all have to answer for ourselves in the end.
YarnWright wrote:
Marie. It has neverr been my intention to hurt anyone in this group, or anywhere for that matter. The original posted question WAS JUST FOR FUN, who would you most like to meet within this group? I don't understand how THAT is 'hurtful' or 'unnecessary'. There were a lot of other just for fun posts... do you think Susan Bates company cares that I for one hate their needles. Are they crying the blues? I think you are being over sensitive, you think I am being evasive. Your perrogative. My perrogative. End. Fini. Noreen
Certainly, Noreen doesn't have name who is on her "naughty-word" list. She just has to make sure we are all aware that the list exists. Although Marie didn't ask for a name, I know that some who would like to know. For your first clue, take note of my new email name. Next clue will be given, if needed.
Noreen: It has nothing to do with the original psot. It had to do with you saying *there is ONE person on this group that I never, ever want to meet*. That is the problem. Now, we know you can be very interesting and fun to have discussions with on this group and that you have a lot of friends. Just remember, if there's someone you don't like, it's a sure bet that others DO like that person and we can ALL be overly sensitive about our friends.
An elderly woman that comes into my work all the time once told someone *Don't be so quick to judge and make comments about other people, you never know what that person is carrying on their shoulders*. I think that was one of the best things I've ever heard anyone say.
I think we all have a part in making this group a FUN and ENJOYABLE place for everyone to come to.
Marie and the cats
YarnWright wrote:
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