Another thing my son had to tell me about was having the cops called on him. My dear precocious granddaughter is learning some good tricks in daycare. Like when ever there is something she doesn't want to do, she claims "it hurts" (eg to go to bed), "I feel sick".
So on Monday he was taking care of Victoria, and she got tired and uncontrolable (and Roger is not a control freak), then began to scream and cry. So two women stopped him, and instead of trying to help they refused to believe he was her father and called the cops (at which point they left). The cops took her from him , but not took her away, and when he showed his ID said it didn't prove she was his, etc.
I think it would be good to try to encourage fathers to help with caring for children instead of calling the cops because the kid is cranky!
Tina