It occurs to me that depression is being as misunderstood by some here as other diseases.
There have been many studies which link depression to genetic factors, as well as a response to life problems. There need not be a negative connotation linked with depression, it's a disease that happens to people, just like other diseases.
Not all people suffering from depression exhibit the same symptoms, which means you don't have to have low-self esteem or be suicidal to be depressed. My symptoms, for instance, are disturbed sleep patterns (I have trouble falling asleep, and then wake again at 3 or 4 a.m. and can't sleep again until about 6 a.m.), I lack energy and tend to be easily irritated. I do think that the latter two are as much about the lack of sleep as the depression. I don't get suicidal, I don't lack self-esteem, I have always had a very strong sense of myself and my worth.
And yet, I've never doubted the diagnosis I got as a teen, the meds I got then still help me today. I've gone without them during pregnancies and during times when doctors have refused to perscribe them ("You aren't depressed because you aren't suicidal" was my favorite line from a shrink at a clinic when I was a college student).
I'm bloody sick of people looking down their noses at the diagnosis of depression, thinking themselves too good to need psychiatric care I guess. It's a helpful thing for millions of people, and if you are willing to take other medications, what's the big deal about trying a mild anti-depressant and seeing if you feel better?
Caryn