OT - Jobquest

So, I'm just sharing, and hoping not to jinx anything.

Have actually had 3 really, really good in person job interviews - the last

2 taking 2, to 2.5 hours. There was also another 90 min one a couple of weeks ago - but, I think my "overqualification" was a bit for that job - who knows.

Anyhow - as life is crashing around us due to situations - I actually got the first solid offer yesterday. YEAH - light at end of tunnel. But, I told them I need some days to make a decision. This one is in a big med practice with urgent care - and only 4.5 miles from house

Now, on Monday I get to call the recruiter who set-up job 2 - as that seemed really nice - in a surgical practice - I'd be the "nursing" staff - it's a satellite office attached to hospital near me - but the group is large and has main office about 13 mi from house, while I'd be at the nearer - about

5-6 miles. 2 admin folks in the office, and one surgeon at a time - only 3 docs practice out of that office, and I know 2 of them from my working in the ED. So, interesting - they're concerned I might be "bored" or not challenged enough. Anyhow - going to spend a bit of time observing in the office - though I think the recruiter guy is going to push a bit - honestly

- I need to know the $$. And they give you really cute scrubs.... First place - which would be more challenging, bur - they give you 1 lab coat thing, and pants, then discount for more.

Third - most amazingly interesting - one of those jobs that you wonder "how do you get that?" is working for the regional transplant consortium. Hmmm. Totally interesting - months of special training - very rewarding, though as we discussed - I'm sure emotionally a bit stressful. Hence, they've done well with paramedic/EMTs and ER/ICU nursing people taking these jobs. However - it's an "on-call" kind of job (full-time, casual hours requirement for in the office - can avoid traffic hours - office is about 23 miles) - on-call about 12 days/month (24 hr). They asked me to talk over with family (DH) and let them know - to progress to next level of interviews (screening stuff). So - now I can call them on Monday to at least get a feel for $$ and timelines - so that I can make a decision about the in-hand offer.

So - finally - YEAH - some vision of light at end of tunnel. Poor DH had to spend 90 min on phone with crazy bi-polar won't take her meds SIL (his sister). With her screaming about how we've screwed her (due to some complications that have entwined us - she's profited $$$ - not sharing back which has caused us a $$ problem, and we've been trying to get her disassociated. But, hey, a late payment, and the world has ended in her view). DH countering - ummmm, you know - you've made money on this, and the agreement was you were returning to us our share....Next breath - "so how're things, want to come to my beach condo?" She's just up and down - all over the place. Had left us - no lie - 7 messages in a row on the phone - mostly just stating her name, phone number, and variuos tones of threat - to call her. All within 15 minutes. Not to mention the whopper nasty on my cell-phone starting with "SISTER-IN-LAW....."

Hopefully I'll be able to have accepted a job by the end of next week. In the meantime - needlework teaching is pretty darn busy!

Ellice

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ellice
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Yeah! Light at the end of the proverbial tunnel. Now we'll have to structure our play time...

Donna in Virginia

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Donna

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Bored--Doesn't that job have something to do with sewing people together when they get into an accident? Stitches are always a major part of an emergency situation, right?

Tell them you can get over being bored by practicing your specialty stitches on a sampler and then help with closing wounds when necessary.

Lucille

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Lucille

Toes crossed, fingers when I'm not stitching.

Hope it all works out for you.

Cheryl

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Cheryl Isaak

Here's hoping you have a choice and take the one you like best.

Try to forget the SIL, it's an affliction and is running par for the course !

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lucretia borgia

LOL - believe me, that's part of this whole decision process..... Of course, we'll get to talk in person when you're home again - thought you're still in NH?

Ellice

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ellice

LOL - you'd think. But, I'd be doing the office stuff, assisting with pre-op and post-op - some biopsies, and lots of "frogging" (stitch removal). OTOH, what's cool is that when there aren't patients scheduled in, but I'm caught up with all the other records, orders, etc - if my doc is in the OR, I can go observe - which is pretty awesome.

Exactly, But, nowadays - lots of staples and steri-strips!

Thanks, Ellice

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ellice

That sounds like a job I would have loved. I'm not even remotely squeamish and have no problem with that kind of thing.

My mom discouraged me from going to Nursing School (aka wouldn't even hear of it and ordered me to go to work and bring in some money) so I went off to work as a secretary when I graduated high school.

I always resented that and felt that I missed something I would have been good at.

Lucille

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Lucille

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Thanks so much. I'm really hoping that I can get some more info on Monday, and work this out.

Exactly. I'm pretty good at dealing with it. I'm sure she's off her meds, and the messages had that tang of "alcohol" - but who knows. Hard thing is how difficult it is for DH. Personally, I'm ok dealing with her, but the calmer, more reasonable I am with her, even the kinder - the more she is likely to flare, screaming nonsense. The emotional drain on DH is that in general he avoids speaking with either of his sisters. What's so horrid is that part of this has to do with $$ - the other sister (that I historically call the MSIL for mean) owes us - for some time now, while the CSIL - we don't owe her anything - she's profited, and actually owes us - but is angry because her near perfect credit score lowered due to our paying something a bit late that has her name with us on it. The sooner we're all un-entangled - the better. Sooner I have a job - and can show a few more substantial paychecks - we can clear a bunch of nonsense, and have a more "pleasant" life. I think that it's just sad that we have no parents between us, and his 2 sisters being such horrors in many ways - makes relationships tough. I'd be happy to enjoy the good, and ignore the rest - but these are women that are actively selfish and negative.

Something I've done in a prior life has earned me penance with a group of passive-aggressive, emotionally troubled women. Oh, well.

Thanks for the good thoughts.

Ellice

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ellice

Sometimes life is like that. I'm having to explain a lot of the mid-life career shift, etc. But, I did have one of the interviewers say to me that "You're not too old to go to PA school" - which I countered that at this stage, I'm not taking out all those student loans. Ut uh. BTDT.

My mom was really upset that I went to engineering school, and then right to grad school - wanting me to go earn money right away - or get a "normal" job. When I was graduating from high school (quite young) she was really difficult - and my folks had plenty of arguments. I think she felt I'd have been better off just staying local at least, going to comm college, and then doing a normal thing. She would have been happier if I'd gone right through on my original med school track - but the quitting, working then being an engineer was beyond her comprehension. OTOH, if I'd gone to law school like DB - that would've been ok.

For her, she quit college after 2 years and worked as a bookkeeper. Her family put everything into the younger sister being able to reclaim her life after a brief (annulled) bad marriage - and her decision to become a doctor. So, I suppose my mom carried out on me that idea. Her mom, my DGM, had been told to go to work - though I'm sure she finished high school while working.

Ellice

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ellice

Gawd ! I am trying to think what one does, in a prior life, that puts one in that place. Imagination running wild. Just try to focus away from the sisters for awhile and let your DH fend with them, take a break.

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lucretia borgia

Thanks. Yup - I'm not sure, but I think it was something. Fortunately, DH and I are at the stage in our relationship that we're reqlly secure with each other, and all the gushy stuff. A few years ago - it was harder to deal with the nonsense and negativity from them as it would affect his moods and make me feel awful and questioned. But, he knows they're off-kilter, and just deals with them. Sadly - they actually think the reason he doesn't want to talk with them is me - as opposed to recognizing how unpleasant they are - and of course, I'm the one that does want him to try and at least stay in contact, even if that means turning a deaf ear for a lot of the time.

Well, I think I'm going to go help in the shop for a couple of hours - so I should get out of the loungey clothes!

Ellice

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ellice

Donna's here and she hasn't called me! SOB

Actually, I know she's really busy this trip. Even if I tempted her with two new to the area "antique" stores and a new fiber store that I haven't made it too yet.

Cheryl

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Cheryl Isaak

I don't know that I agree. From off list conversations, her DH deserves a break from his crazy relatives and Ellice is sharing the burden.

Having no one to really share the crazy relative thing with (all DH says is I'm lucky to have them still), I think Jon is a lucky boy and Ellice is accumulating good karma....

Cheryl

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Cheryl Isaak

Ditto that...I hope it's a case of "when it rains, it pours" and you have choices!

Sue

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Susan Hartman

Thanks - I think that's exactly the situation. The offer I have in hand is one I'd be happy with. It'll be just balancing the different schedule types, work and $$.

It's silly - but all of these interviews went so well, that as I explained to the 1st offerer, I do want to have the chance to rescind my availablity nicely - after making a thoughtful decision.

At least we're feeling a bit better - I think it's the first night I've slept for more than just a couple of hours at a time in a while - this time at least I got 5 (after waking at 3).

Ellice

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ellice

Good luck to you Ellice! Sounds like you have some great choices.

Linda

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lewmew

Thanks - we'll see what shakes out. Everything else in the household has just about hit the full crisis mode!

ellice

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ellice

I promise that if I'm the one to bring DD back to school, I will call. This was one busy trip and we didn't even get to see some relatives that we should have and we even stayed an extra day.

Donna back in VA

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Donna

Welll,,,, give how busy this week and next will be, I understand completely..

My head is spinning, all I really wanted was to make one drive today and I'm going to be doing 3 instead... As much as I know these power skating lessons are helping DD, I'm tired of driving.

Cheryl

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Cheryl Isaak

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