Prayers and goood thoughts wanted

my prayers and a big hug on the way Deb, for you both. my deepest condolences. amy in CNY

Lots of love, hugs and prayers for you and your Mom, Debra.

Karen, Queen of Squishies

Hugs and prayers for you and your mom, Debra.

Take care of you.

My sincere condolences and heartiest hugs for you and your mom Debra. It's a difficult time even when you know it's often for the best. I'm glad your grandfather can join his lost love.

Debra, I am so sorry for your loss(es). Prayers and hugs for all who loved your grandfather.

Leslie

(((((((Debra)))))))) ((((((((Mom))))))))

Somehow it still feels like grandpa is there, in the house he built. I think he's watching over us now. I hope what I've written is readab;e because I can't really see the screen right now.

-------------------------------------------------- I'm sorry for your two recent losses. I know how you feel about grandpa still being in the house.

My grandfather built the house I grew up in, it was a 3 generational home. Both my grands and both my parents died while I was a teenager, but I drive by the house every once in a while when I get nostalgic and I can still picture Pepere sitting in his rocker with his spittoon by his side (stinky old thing, but he was a tobacco chewer).

My aunt finally sold the house last year and the new family painted it the most obscene shade of kelly green. It used to be gray with white trim, very conservative. Now when I drive by, I picture Pepere walking back and forth, fuming at the new color choice.

Cherish all the great memories.

Denise

Sincere condolences, Debra. This is such a difficult time for those who are left. Your Mom is going to feel bereft. I hope you'll be able to find comfort together. Don't push yourselves too hard with the clearing up. I found that my whole body was tense after my father had died; and when I was clearing up, I actually passed out - for quite a long time. Very scary. So do be careful and don't do more than you feel quite capable of doing - and watch your Mom doesn't either. It is not a situation where we can do as much as we usually do. Take care. . In message , Debra writes

Dear Debra, many prayers and good thoughts coming to you and your mother. Let yourself grieve. Healing comes next.

Hugs, Sunny

Oh, Debra, I'm so sorry! A double loss such as this is just awful. I know you're taking care of your mother, but please take care of yourself, too. {{{{Hugs}}}}

Thinking of you. Barbara in SC

Big hugs to you and your mom....I'm truly sorry for your losses and hope that each day will be a better day for you. Launie, in Oregon

That sure is a whole lot of heartache in such a short time, and certainly enough to overwhelm anyone. Heartfelt condolences to your family< Debra, and prayers and calming thoughts to your mom.

-Irene

((((( HUGS)))))

Dee in Oz

Hugs and prayers are on their way!!

ME-Judy

Debra, I am so sorry for your loss! Please accept some loving thoughts and prayers and warm hugs from Tucson.

Debra; Warm condolences to you and your family. Pat