VERY OT about gift giving

Dec 23, 2008 21 Replies

Jeans transend 'clothes!' The only jeans my daughter will wear are Arizona carpenter's, and my DS prefers Levis. They LOVE their jeans and whenever something is torn or worn, they ask good ol' mom to darn/repair them (which of course I do LOL). They don't throw them out until they're beyond repair! (Then I use them to make patches!)

-Irene

On Tue, 23 Dec 2008 11:40:36 -0600, Leslie & The Furbabies in MO. wrote (in article ):

I wasn't going to weigh in here, but after reading the replies I'll put in my

2 cents. I come from a huge family. When I was very small, but Mom and Grandma did the same amount of gifts, same amount of money spent. But as the oldest kids got older and had more expensive gifts, they switched to budgeting the same amount of money for each child. By the time that started happening, my mother sat us oldest children down and explained budgeting and costs to us. So it was clear that we were all "equal" in terms of amount spent even though the littler kids would have more packages to open. I suspect that similar talks were given to my cousins around the same time.

After that, grandma usually made sure that my cousin and I received same or similar gifts (same with my two eldest brothers). So we'd both get jeans for example or a bracelet. It was still "fair" and "equal" just in a different way.

Maureen

Both my cousin and I still have the special bracelets we got when we were fourteen.

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