OT: Bad Week

Sep 19, 2005 15 Replies
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My grandma (dad's mom) passed away last Sunday night and the service was Thursday. She was 92 and the Lord was very good to her in the end. She simply closed her eyes while sitting in the recliner and slipped away. She lived alone but my aunt from Arkansas was visiting, so she wasn't alone when it happened.



Now this Sunday (yesterday) my mom's half brother calls and says my grandpa (mom's stepdad) died early yesterday morning. She's out of town and I was finally able to reach her last night. I don't know yet when the services will be. He had some blood clots that went into his lungs and he didn't last long after that. He was already using oxygen regular. Sad thing is, even w/ him on the oxygen in the house, my grandma still wouldn't stop smoking.



It's just pretty unbelievable. I've never lost two people inside of a week of each other like this. I had one absence in my heart and now I have another. I'm not one to share any of my personal business w/ the group. Maybe that's why Dave thinks I'm shy? I just felt the need to share this. Thanks for reading.



Katrina in KS



So, sorry to hear of your losses. They are awfully close and I bet you're heart is broken. It just takes time to heal the heart. I think of all your great memories with your loved ones or about them and it will help you through this rough time.

Hugs, Lynne

Katrina I'm so sorry to hear of your losses. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

My heart goes out to you Katrina. Two losses in so short a time must be completely unsettling. I hope that you and your mom will be able to help each other through this difficult and sad time.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

M-C

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sandy

So sorry to hear of your losses Katrina {{{{hugs}}}

Take care, Marilyn

I am very sorry to hear of your losses. That is a lot to deal with in one week! {{{{big hugs}}}}

Linda C

Katrina, I am sending you a big hug and am so sorry for your losses. That is a lot to handle in such a short time. Love, Sabrina

I am so sorry for your losses this week Katrina. Losing two loved ones so close together is heartbreaking. My prayer is that you'll be able to grieve, heal, and have peace.

Katrina, I am so sorry for your losses. My heart and prayers are with you.

Thanks everybody. Grandpa's service is going to be Thursday. I'm hoping all goes well, as mom's family can be a little rough around the collar. Unlike dad's family. I haven't talked w/ grandma yet but I'm told by both my uncle's wife and my aunt that she's very angry right now. They were married 53 yrs. Longer than I realized. She didn't even want to have any kind of service but my two aunts arranged everything.

Tomarrow is the anniversary of my dad's death, 9yrs. I've been thinking about him alot too. I need to start my book of me and scrap some childhood pics to put in it. Maybe that'll get me feeling better. Scrap some pics of everybody.

Katrina in KS

Katrina, I am so sorry. This is a really bad time right now. Wish we lived closer so I could give you a big hug and let you lean on me a bit. {{{{{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}}}}}}}

I'm sorry sweety... I know how you feel - my grandma and grandpa died within days of each other and it was a double blow :(

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