I'm behind on things, and have a bunch of posts to catch up on, but something is really bothering me. I NEVER thought I'd be in this position. Here's a part of a post from someone who bought a couple of beads from me a while back:
was pregnant and I happened to be on the torch at the time she called me and I made my own (crummy in comparison) version of your pregnant goddess bead to give to her. Well, since then, a few people have seen it and thought they would make great gifts for their pregnant friends. I just want to know if it's okay with you or if I should just send them to your website instead? I don't want to step on any toes or rip off someone's design. I would feel terribly guilty if I was doing something that wasn't okay with you to do. I 've listened to Sharon Peters complain about that very thing strongly and I know it's a sensitive subject for a lot of people. I just want to know either way. I won't be disappointed if you say no, and I've told the people asking for them that I would get in touch with you before I went ahead and made them. Just let me know when you have a spare minute.>
I really hate to re-hash the copying thread, but.............. what would you say? I guess I'm tired, but I just don't know. Yes, it does bother me, but I don't feel like I have the right to tell someone what to do. She might take the design in a new direction and more power to her. At least she was nice enough to ask.
I usually feel like there's nothing new under the sun. I've gone through phases where I didn't want to see another bead because I didn't want to be accused of copying someone. I've seen people get associated with a bead, when I know someone else has done the same thing for years.
Then again, I've felt like these beads were my babies (arr. arr.) and I don't like someone else stealing them!