Happy and Safe Holidays

I can't tell you what to do (contrary to our previous conversation, LOL!), but one question to consider is, what would you feel more comfortable with. The "familiar" of Sacramento (you used to live here, right?), or the "unfamiliar" of Bremerton, then the possibility of moving every 1 - 3 years. And if she gets ship duty, or overseas duty, you might get left behind, anyway. You would still have the dependent pay (like we discussed)...

those are the things to consider...

Mary

vj found this in rec.crafts.beads, from "meijhana" :

]one question to consider is, what would you feel more comfortable with. ]The "familiar" of Sacramento (you used to live here, right?), or the ]"unfamiliar" of Bremerton, then the possibility of moving every 1 - 3 years. ]And if she gets ship duty, or overseas duty, you might get left behind, ]anyway. You would still have the dependent pay (like we discussed)...

this is my problem. Jamie and i actually live together very well. her friends all seem to like having me around. i could handle the moving - i haven't seen nearly enough of this country anyway. if she goes overseas, she would probably send me to stay with Johnny until she got back [and there ARE ways i can be of help to her, just like Johnny].

it really is just about equal, either way!

maybe we can talk about it this weekend. take a vote or something!

----------- @vicki [SnuggleWench] (Books)

(Jewelry) ----------- The measure of the menace of a man is not what hardware he carries, but what ideas he believes.-- Jeff Jordan

Yes, but the big Q is 'Do you wanna live with 2 19 Y/O boys????

Mavis>

let me answer that question for anyone

HELL NO

Cheryl of DRAGON BEADS Flameworked beads and glass

vj found this in rec.crafts.beads, from snipped-for-privacy@aol.combeads (Cheryl) :

]let me answer that question for anyone ]HELL NO

*in general*, that would be my response. not in this case.

----------- @vicki [SnuggleWench] (Books)

(Jewelry) ----------- The measure of the menace of a man is not what hardware he carries, but what ideas he believes.-- Jeff Jordan

vj found this in rec.crafts.beads, from "Christina Peterson" :

]Have to admit it. Me too. I want my own life and they want there own too.

well, both of my youngest seem to LIKE having me around. maybe we're weird.

----------- @vicki [SnuggleWench] (Books)

(Jewelry) ----------- The measure of the menace of a man is not what hardware he carries, but what ideas he believes.-- Jeff Jordan