OT: Nice evening

We celebrated our 5th anniversary tonight, only one week late (a record for us).

DH took me out to a new vegan restraunt in town. We decided to dress up nice and hence were way over-dressed since it mostly serves sandwiches and interesting drinks (that is, fancy teas and fruit drinks). We went all out and ordered drinks (I got Chai tea, somehting I've always wanted to try but couldn't as it is usually dairy based), sandwhiches, soup, and deserts (unfortunately they had long ago run out of the vegan cheese cake but what we got was pretty good). DH actually liked the meal more then I did and now feels a challenge to improve on his Seitan.

I freaked out when I saw the bill came to $30 (whcih makes sence if you think about all the 'extras' we ordered), since we are on a very tight budget since we moved here so I could go to school. DH said it is coming out of his "allowance" which we have lowerd to $40 a month so I felt bad but he keeps telling me this is what he expected and that other people go on more expensive dates when they aren't even married ;)

For our anniversary presents we decided not to buy anything, but each to choose something the other can do for us that we really want. We both totally freaked eachother out since both of our requsts have to do with more open communication in areas we are respectively not good at. But we vowed to try.

The waitress got to see many pix of our birdies on DH's palm pilot. (BTW we have some more cute bathing pix of Sugar and some truely increadible flight pictures of both which should be up soonish).

Tomorrow we are going to Brown County State Park for a walk and a picnic, provided by DH! I am so excited. As is typical, since we moved here my parents have been to several of the forest preserves and other nice things around here, but we haven't!

I am not doing any homework this weekend at all (and actually I slept almost all day today, hence the spill-over of our plans until tomorrow). Thankfully most of the teachers are going to the AECT conference next week so there is a little bit of a break (we all plan on catching up on group projects next week but there is a little more of a relaxed feeling).

Anyhow, don't know why but felt like sharing. I guess I wanted to offset my usual whining ;)

marisa2

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Marisa2
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I think your post was wonderful! We share our misfortunes here because we know that the others care but we want to hear good things too. I don't always have anyone that I can share my "good husband" stories with because my best friend can't find a nice guy. It seems they all end up being jerks. How I can tell her about the good things Keith has done for me without making her feel sad?

It's nice to know that there are good things going on in the world. :-)

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JoAnn Paules

Sounds like a truly lovely day. Congrats on your 5th anniversary. Major milestone. I can't wait for my 20th.

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starlia

Happy Anniversary, Marisa!

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Carol in SLC

Happy Anniversary! Your evening sounds like it was wonderful!

Have fun tomorrow, and enjoy your little reprieve from school!

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Beadbimbo

Happy Anniversary! I hope you have many more just as lovely.

Cheri (Bubbee to Emily and Nathan)

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Cheri2Star

My husband and I never exchange gifts. Instead, we do favors for each other on a regular basis, without regard to holidays or birthdays. Our favorite "surprise" is to do some chore that we know the other one dislikes, but sometimes we do get more creative than that.

This habit started out as sheer pragmatism when we were first married and had *no* money. Today, we do it because we enjoy it. Lots of people who find out that we don't exchange gifts seem to think we are nuts. Especially since we do give gifts to other people--just not to each other. But over the years we have bumped into a few other couples who do as we do. And all of them seemed to love it.

Sounds like you had a lovely anniversary. Congratulations!

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Peggy

Peggy,

We'll see how well we did our non-physical gifts (they were a lot more challenging then a single chore which may lead to their failure but we are hopeful). I think it is a great idea. We sure don't need more junk and also don't have money to waste now.

marisa2

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Marisa2

Well, we don't exactly do a "single chore." We've both got pretty complex lives, so our chores tend to be pretty complex as well. Like tiling the entire bathroom, for example.

But you are right that we strive for fun, rather than a challenge. Life can be challenging enough sometimes, you know?

Anyway--happy, happy anniversary to both of you. I think you've hit on a great idea.

:-)

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Peggy

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