This is a little off the subject, but last night these two beautiful little girls (twins) came to my door with little trinkets they made from assorted dayglow beads and other, well, colors! They said they were doing it to raise money to buy gifts with and they were a dollar each. I chose two and gave them five dollars. Not to spoil them, but to show them that some people care and will be generous.
It seems that worse than children not knowing it's all there for the taking is this lack of generosity. If I had my choice of what people would remember me by, of all things, I'd want to be remembered for my generosity. I guess I need to remember that when I get angry at something stupid.