I think you have that correct.
There was a great interview with Carl Lewis, the track star, on NPR - I think on "tell me more" . It was a great talk about sports, the issues of doping, how people have lost perspective. In particular that the idea that
13 yr old kids should be tracked into their "career" - instead of learning multiple skills, sportsmanship, and having fun - not to mention the discipline issues. Plus - Carl clearly said "parents have to learn they can't live their lives through their children" - more or less. Fortunately, the enhancement drugs is still a minority of all the people that play sports- but sadly - when kids or their parents trust a coach or trainer and want to do anything to get ahead....
Me, too. Though, I do have a serious competitive streak when playing sports
- however, there is a reason I tend to defense rather than offense - my mentality is more fierce protector of the team, goal, etc -than it is go score. OTOH, my first serious tennis coach worked hard on me as he thought I didn't have enough killer instinct. It would definitely come out when an opponent either cheated, or did something really dirty.
I do look forward to the horsey stuff - this area is home to the USET Eventing organization, and lots of the trials are nearby, and many recognizable names of Olympic equestrian folk live in this county or the next one. Plus, I'm addicted, and overwhelmingly jealous. My goal of working - amongst others - is to force myself to get back in shape, fit into my breeches, and go back to horsey things. It's a possibility. Puckster's vet is a horse gal - I'm always kidding her about doing small animals - as she's essentially supporting her 3 horses, in Middleburg. But, she has an aunt with a great dressage barn that isn't too snooty to go talk with - so....
Ellice