Could use some heavy duty positive thoughts here.... sort of OT

Jan 05, 2007 20 Replies

Hi. Things are being a bit upsetting here in the so called "Valley of the Sun".... at least for us. Some of you may remember that back in Oct. I was driving and got hit from behind. Actually I was stopped and the guy that came up behind me saw cars in front of me moving and didn't stop.. Fender bender it was. Because of heading to Houston and the infamous car trouble that ended up with Jeanne and I spending 4 and a half days in Midland, I didn't get the car into the body shop when I had it scheduled. It is in there now. Has been for a couple of weeks. They found more damage.... and the guy's insurance company is saying that the car may be totaled. Folks, I cannot afford a replacement car. This car has a newly replaced engine, new battery (in preparation for the trip to Houston) and so on. So if you all could send some heavy duty positive thinking for being able to get my car back soon, and not having to pay out more money.... That would be a Wonderful Thing.



And it is not entirely off topic either. I need my car to get to classes to teach and to "take" and to go fabric shopping. This whole mess has also got me so upset I am not making any headway at all on quilting and designing and writing up the designs I have already in the works. Just don't feel like doing much besides hiding in a hole.



Hope everyone is having a good time and doing lots.



Pati, in Phx


((((((Pati hugs)))))) and loads of positive vibes on the way...

Auto prayers heading your way, and fast, Pati! Hugs,

Karen, Queen of Squishies

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Pati,

We had a similar run-in with our insurance company regarding the fact they wanted to total the car. They go by an industry guide that does not necessarily correlate to real-life values. The auto shop helped us provide them with a better value of the car's condition prior to the accident. We also researched similar vehicles for sale and the going price. With that information in hand, we were able to prove that the value of our car was greater than their "book value". This then lowered the damage to value ratio and brought it below the threshold they use to total a car.

You may need to provide them with all your recent repair receipts. This is commonly done among our VW camper community when somebody's bus is in an accident. Try it, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Com> Fender bender it was. Because of heading to Houston and the infamous

Can you feel the waves of positive energy flowing across the Pacific?

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Pati, I am sorry to hear about your car troubles. I know how that goes, if something happened to mine I would be out of luck for sure.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and maybe the outcome will not be as bad as you think it is going to be.

Jacquel>Hi. Things are being a bit upsetting here in the so called "Valley of

Hope everything works out for you on the quickest and least stressful way possible! Hugs,

Pati,

With the good vibes and thoughts and prayers of this group behind you, things just have to turn out for the best. We're keeping you in our thoughts and keeping our fingers crossed!

I agree with Pati - look into this more. One of my co-workers hit a deer with his 8-yr old Volvo, and the insurance company totalled it; because it was 8 yrs old he was allowed to keep the car, so he used the insurance money to fix the car & he even had some $$ left over. As long as the car passes inspection, NYS will allow it to be registered even if it was totalled in the past... the car is fixed and he's driving it.

-Irene

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Trying some transatlantic positive thoughts for you, Pati. What a worry for you. I do hope it all works out well. Don't force yourself to work, while you feel like this. Chances are you might not like what you do - once all is sorted out. So, don't waste your time. Try to do useful things, but not terribly important. When I'm worried (frantic), I know I do some odd things, and can't remember stuff from one minute to the next. Be gentle with yourself - and don't forget to breathe. . In message , Pati Cook writes

Supportive hugs in your direction Pati.

I have some inkling of how you must be feeling. My last car dropped its gearbox outside Tesco's and died there and then. Okay, I was towed to the garage and they drove me home, but that was that. No car, no transport, prospect of mega-bill either for new innards (car was OLD) or new car (you're joking!)

Came out all right in the end, thanks to a generous Mum. However, I sympathise with you. Hold on in there and sting the bumper-man's insurance for a new car if they total it!

Nel (Gadget Queen)

Pati Cook wrote:

Sending positive thoughts your way, Pati!

Positive thoughts headed your way from Maine! ME-Judy

eeeeeeeek!!!!! good grief, that is insane to say the least. after the car dies on the way home, you replace the engine at much cost and lots of time (two weeks) staying there in Midland for that week, then you had to rent a car, drive home to Phx, wait a week and drive back to Midland to get your finally fixed car. now they tell you the car maybe be totalled? so if that is their final decision what happens to the car? do they let you keep the car as is and pay you the value pre accident? how do they work out how much to pay you for it? i'm sure they do it differently there than here. i'd be sure to tell them and show the reciept for the new engine and all the other costs from that fiasco, fwiw, so they realize had they looked at the car properly before you drove to Houston, maybe this would all be going a different direction now. this is just one more piece of crap you gotta deal with. if i lived nearby i'd come round and get ya and drive ya to your classes at least. tis a long swim over tho and i dont look good in lycra anymore so i guess that aint gonna happen. sending heaps and heaps of positive vibrations....good good good good vibrations, ok, so the beach boys? do it better, whats your point? and i know the rest of the song is not relevent, geez, its still early here and i'm not fully coherent yet...not that i ever am but i do get better as the day progresses, contrary to popular opinion. anyhow... {{{{{{{{{{{{{Pati}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} jeanne

Pati: Hope the car blues soon disappear! PAT in VA/USA

That's a great point, Irene. Most states allow this, and if the repairs end up being less than the check you get, all the better!

wow, they let you keep the car and pay you for the value before totalled. geez, dd had her car stolen from in front of the house. insurance towed from the original towing yard to the mechanic/body shop. insurance decided it was totalled too. insurance gets to keep the car and paid us the value pre-theft. then they sell it for whatever they can get for it to offset their payout to us. it was worth more than that to us than they paid cuz we'd also had a new engine put in it only 6 months prior to that. we were not amused but not a damn thing we could do bout it. if it is repairable and they pay you and let you keep the car, could be not soooo bad. good luck, Pati. jeanne

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