Thank you SO much to all of you for your kind thoughts and prayers! I know that ya'll have your own problems and issues to deal with and it means so much that you would spare the time and emotional energy (not to mention the physical energy of posting) to send us good thoughts!
Hubby got home (finally) Friday morning .... he was supposed to get home Thursday at 7 PM, but they "lost" him and he ended up missing a connecting flight, so they rerouted him to another airport. So I went two counties over and was able to pick him up at 11PM, getting us home at around 2 AM.
Thankfully, they did provide him with a wheelchair at 2 of the three airports - one (and this is something that I hope ya'll NEVER let the airports get away with) just pretty much took him to his gate in a wheelchair and dumped him off - leaving him NO way to make his flight. Hubby didn't complain of course, just did his best to hobble to the ramp (and didn't make it, of course). :(
Anyway, since it happened on the job, we've got no choice but to use Worker's Comp - which, if anyone here has ever used it, knows that NO doctor takes it (too much risk of liability - and Workers Comp rarely ever pays their bills on time). We were happy to pay for it out of our pocket (so hubby could receive care locally AND reliably) even if it meant declaring bankruptcy, but apparently, we can't do that - it would be considered "fraud."
So after spending all day at the ER (who DOES accept WC), and finding out that we're more than likely looking at an ACL AND MCL tear, we've been re-routed to Dothan, AL (about 3 hours away) to see a specialist. This fellow is supposed to be one of the best, but with all the red tape and poop associated with WC, we're concerned that if hubby DOES need surgery, WC will make us wait at least 2 months (the average time it takes to authorize surgery). In the meantime, it will be all physical therapy.
Meanwhile, I've been offline taking care of my dear sweet hubby - he's stubborn, and is doing his best to do things himself (which is just furthering the damage, of course) but I've been gone trying to make sure he can get better. He's actually going into work later today (yep, I told you that's how he is) - saying that if he doesn't, about 10 people will be unemployed next year (he's fighting for his funding for his projects - which employ roughly 30 people - so budget cuts means only a few of those people will still have a job). So like as not, I've got to take him (he can't drive, of course). I know the majority of those people and I couldn't sit by and let them lost their jobs, either. Not to mention that if I DIDN'T take him, he'd find a way to get there - even if it meant hobbling the 3 miles. :/
One GOOD thing that has come out of this is that everyone associated with the boat he fell off of is SCARED poopless. I'm not sure if we could actually sue them and make their lives difficult (which we're not of a mind to, anyway) - but I don't know if THEY know that. So perhaps, someone will get the message and install a stupid ladder on the boats so this doesn't happen again. Until then, I'm being pretty mouthy about the situation hoping that that's what will happen.
FTR, I think the damage to his leg was caused by the fact that he fell a good four feet - and weighs about 300+ lbs. Can you imagine the force and momentum when he landed on his knee???? I shudder to think about it. :(
Anyway, thank you so much for the kind thoughts and vibes! We've been feeling them!!
Love & quilty hugs to you all!! :)