OT: Yoooo Hooooo!!!! Read Me!! ( Stopping In For A Visit)

First things first, Hey All!

Yeah, The title of the Post may seem a bit pushy, but it's for a reason.

I've had a busy start to winter. Been running my brother back and forth to college for sign ups, (EMT'S) book gathering and everything that goes with it, (his car was down and I got paid, woo hoo!) and attending his Fire Academy II graduation, and helping out my grandma. Seems grandpa is getting worse with what his dr. diagnosed as dementia. She gets all frustrated and has no one there to talk to. So, I go down and go to the store with her and generally help her get stuff done and give her someone to talk to.

I've also been working on this social anxiety thing that has been looming over me for a long time now. Hence the reason for the semi-pushy intro. I'm trying to take baby steps to assert myself a little bit more every day without worrying what other people think too much.

I don't know when this happened, but I'm working my way out of this box. Social Anxiety- a bad mind game with your own mind. Bleh!

And I'm trying not to let things bother me so much. Just the other day some idiot pulled out in front of us (I was the passenger) and almost hit us. The hooker had the nerve to give me a dirty look the first time I looked over at her. The second time we exchanged looks, I smiled nice and big and blew her a kiss! I don't think she liked that very much. I laughed my head off.

I've been on a quest for wood beads. I'd like to make a mala type bracelet, but every bead I find is either too big, or too small. And all my catalogs seem to have disappeared. I guess I'll have to kick the b/f off this dang computer long enough to surf the 'net for some.

Well, I just thought I'd drop a line and say hi. Y'all have a good day and try not to freeze, seeing as how most everybody is probably dealing with bitter cold temps.

Later all-

Rachel

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Rachel T.
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Hi Rachel - welcome back! :)

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Kandice Seeber

vj found this in rec.crafts.beads, from "Rachel T." :

]Well, I just thought I'd drop a line and say hi.

welcome back, Rachel! hope you're going to stay a while!

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vj

Whooohoooo !!!!!!!!!! From one social phobic working herself out of the box to another... Diana

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Diana Curtis

Hiya Rachel! nows a great time to get new catalogs! Either write via email or call them on the phone--its also good practice overcoming for the social anxiety thing. I've been going through my drawer of oldies and calling for new ones too. (the new Rio Grande catalog, and their tool catalog, are both seriously drool-worthy, as people say 'round here!) Sarajane

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Sjpolyclay

scoot over, there's a lot of people here in this box! Sarajane

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Sjpolyclay

[fellow recovering social-phobic, delurking]

In my limited experience, the best wood beads are found in necklaces salvaged from thrift stores.

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Stef

Scootchen over.... This must be a glass box.... so many people looking in at us..judging us.. oh.. wait.. thats my phobia speaking again. ;-) Diana

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Diana Curtis

Spring-board outta there!!

Here goes guys & gals...

Mavis

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AmazeR

On Sat, 24 Jan 2004 14:39:56 -0500, Diana Curtis wrote (in message ):

They're not looking at _you_, they're looking at their own reflections in the glass. Most people are way too self absorbed to even notice anyone else.

Next time someone seems to be judging you, watch and listen. They're saying an awful lot about themselves, aren't they? You can find out a lot about people's opinions of themselves by listening to what they say about others.

Kathy N-V

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Kathy N-V

Would you be wanting round beads, about 8mm, pale natural wood colour with (I think) a thin layer of varnish? Cos I've been having a Great Bead Clearout and I have a load of them which I'd be happy to send you. I also have a few larger ones, ovals and about 3 large hole beads with chinese symbols. Swapsies or a few bucks towards postage?

p.s. Welcome back!

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Rachel T.

O, try thi

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Rachel T.

having to piggy back here... to respond to Kathy... My rational mind tells me that truly, I am not that important in the scheme of things that people would find me something worth gossiping about. Logic doesnt have anything to do with the anxiety until one recognizes that our minds and bodys are lying to us about what will happen when we go out in public or do those things that produce the anxiety. The problem we phobics face is telling those lies we see them for what they are, before they have a chance to produce the anxiety which convinces us to avoid the activity which we find fearful. Whew.. hope that came out the way I meant it. Once we realize we are inventing our own problem we are more in a position to do what we want or need without the fear of the 'what ifs' stopping us. Thats whats worked for me so far. Still need more work on the phone and driving yet... but Im getting Much Better. Diana

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Kalera Stratton

This is incredibly wise advice, and anybody who tends to feel self-conscious would benefit by taking it to heart. Remember all those times you totally humiliated yourself in front of everyone?

Well, no one else does, because they were too busy thinking about how others were perceiving *them*! Think about the times when someone you know humiliated themselves in front of you (it can't be something they told you about, but something you actually witnessed). I bet you can't think of many, if any! It works the same way in reverse.

Unless you're that guy Kathy met who claimed to be a close personal friend of Kathy NV! LOL!

-Kalera

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Kalera Stratton

vj found this in rec.crafts.beads, from snipped-for-privacy@aol.comeatspam (Sjpolyclay) :

]scoot over, there's a lot of people here in this box!

AMEN!

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Rachel - GOOD to see you back!! It is actually supposed to warm up enough tonight to snow here!

Hugs,

Carol in SLC

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I don't drive. It was the #1 anxiety inducer for me, and I let it go so as to be able to distribute the load.

Sarajane

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Sjpolyclay

Rachel, long time no see!

I relate to the social anxiety thingie... good for you for making yourself get out there and assert yourself! It takes a lot of courage to do that.

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