I think you are confusing cause and effect. Probably Karen would also call her acquaintances "angels" too if they were *real* friends and helped out.
Um, I'm considered to be quite high maintenance by many, although I do have my good qualities!
;-)
I don't see how being sick and NEEDING help equals "sense of entitlement."
How do you know?
For example, one of the reasons my ex is my ex is that he didn't take care of me when I was bedridden for approx. 6 weeks in late 1989-90. I would say that HE had the sense of entitlement (therefore he should always be on the *receiving* end of help). I was sick for approx. 6 monthes in the late 1990s but received plenty of help and emotional support from my current partner. Yet, I am the same person now as I was in 1989 and 1996-7.
Erin