OT - Prayers and good thoughts for Jeanne

My heart breaks for her.

Paulette in WV

Jenn,

Thanks for letting us know. Good thoughts will be going out to Jeanne tonight and in the future. I can only imagine how devastating this must be.

Judie

Jenn > I don't have any details, and she may kill me for doing this, but we

My thoughts and prayers are with you Jeanne.

tahnks, jenn. i dont mind. i did post on facebook. just did the first one i went into that day. just returned from the funeral home to see tim. took gen and sam. we stayed a while. sam put his earphones from Ipod in Tims ears to listen to Miles Davis awhile. Tim would appreciate the idocy of doing that on someone who is no longer alive. i told tim to please please come back and haunt me or whatever you call it. told him to find his older brother (who will still be a baby wherever they go) grandma, grandpa, uncle larry and bring them all back for a visit. i'd love to see them all. tim is only 21yo. too young. its not right. kids are not supposed to leave first. i made gen and sam promise without fail that they will outlive me. if anything happens to either of them i'll be fast behind them as i can not cope with anymore close deaths in my lifetime. i've had more than my share. that is two of my kids gone now. two left. enough , no more. i just want my tim to come home. i want him back. i'm a frigg'n mess right now. we now have to wait about 34 months for the coroners inquest and go thru it all again. they did a full autopsy, not sure when that will be revealed. it was to check if the meningitis he had when 14yo (over the week of 9/11) had caused any brain damage we knew nothing about. also to check whatever. i hate all that shit. sorry folks but my language is blue at the best of times. right now i'm just a blubbering mess off and on thruout the day. also now waiting to see how long dh's mum will hang on to life. she is skin/bones, on morpine and dr says in a coma of sorts so how long she'll hang on is unknown. then we'll go thru all this over again. i just keep hugging my two kids now and they are good with that. they need'em too. then we all cry all over again. nothing more. he is gone. i want him back. he is loved and will be missed heaps. nothing more from me for who knows how long. later and thanks for all the love and hugz from you lot, jeanne

Thanks for taking time to pop in Jeanne. I certainly wouldn't be able to do it.

21 is far too young to go. If it helps, talk, with the different time zones there is usually someone around

(((((hugs))))) for you and your family and keeping you in my thoughts.

Dee in Oz

"nzlstar*" wrote tahnks, jenn. i dont mind. i did post on facebook. just did the first one i went into that day. just returned from the funeral home to see tim. took gen and sam. we stayed a while. sam put his earphones from Ipod in Tims ears to listen to Miles Davis awhile. Tim would appreciate the idocy of doing that on someone who is no longer alive. i told tim to please please come back and haunt me or whatever you call it. told him to find his older brother (who will still be a baby wherever they go) grandma, grandpa, uncle larry and bring them all back for a visit. i'd love to see them all. tim is only 21yo. too young. its not right. kids are not supposed to leave first. i made gen and sam promise without fail that they will outlive me. if anything happens to either of them i'll be fast behind them as i can not cope with anymore close deaths in my lifetime. i've had more than my share. that is two of my kids gone now. two left. enough , no more. i just want my tim to come home. i want him back. i'm a frigg'n mess right now. we now have to wait about 34 months for the coroners inquest and go thru it all again. they did a full autopsy, not sure when that will be revealed. it was to check if the meningitis he had when 14yo (over the week of 9/11) had caused any brain damage we knew nothing about. also to check whatever. i hate all that shit. sorry folks but my language is blue at the best of times. right now i'm just a blubbering mess off and on thruout the day. also now waiting to see how long dh's mum will hang on to life. she is skin/bones, on morpine and dr says in a coma of sorts so how long she'll hang on is unknown. then we'll go thru all this over again. i just keep hugging my two kids now and they are good with that. they need'em too. then we all cry all over again. nothing more. he is gone. i want him back. he is loved and will be missed heaps. nothing more from me for who knows how long. later and thanks for all the love and hugz from you lot, jeanne

Jeanne, if you see this, I wish I could wrap you up in my arms and cry with you. I'm just devastated. My sons are 19 and 22. Just hits home in a huge way. I've been extra nice to them today. They don't know why but they're good about it. I wish I could bring your son back to you.

Love, Sunny

Jeanne, my deepest sympathies for your loss.

Words cannot express how sad and bad I feel for you and your family. What an absolutely effing horrible tragedy.

Please don't forget to take care of yourself. You are loved by more people than you can imagine. Please feel that during this time.

So, so very sorry, Jeanne. Laurie G. in CA

"nzlstar*" wrote in message news: snipped-for-privacy@p6g2000pre.googlegroups.com... On Mar 24, 10:11 am, Jenn in Tacoma wrote:

tahnks, jenn. i dont mind. i did post on facebook. just did the first one i went into that day. just returned from the funeral home to see tim. took gen and sam. we stayed a while. sam put his earphones from Ipod in Tims ears to listen to Miles Davis awhile. Tim would appreciate the idocy of doing that on someone who is no longer alive. i told tim to please please come back and haunt me or whatever you call it. told him to find his older brother (who will still be a baby wherever they go) grandma, grandpa, uncle larry and bring them all back for a visit. i'd love to see them all. tim is only 21yo. too young. its not right. kids are not supposed to leave first. i made gen and sam promise without fail that they will outlive me. if anything happens to either of them i'll be fast behind them as i can not cope with anymore close deaths in my lifetime. i've had more than my share. that is two of my kids gone now. two left. enough , no more. i just want my tim to come home. i want him back. i'm a frigg'n mess right now. we now have to wait about 34 months for the coroners inquest and go thru it all again. they did a full autopsy, not sure when that will be revealed. it was to check if the meningitis he had when 14yo (over the week of 9/11) had caused any brain damage we knew nothing about. also to check whatever. i hate all that shit. sorry folks but my language is blue at the best of times. right now i'm just a blubbering mess off and on thruout the day. also now waiting to see how long dh's mum will hang on to life. she is skin/bones, on morpine and dr says in a coma of sorts so how long she'll hang on is unknown. then we'll go thru all this over again. i just keep hugging my two kids now and they are good with that. they need'em too. then we all cry all over again. nothing more. he is gone. i want him back. he is loved and will be missed heaps. nothing more from me for who knows how long. later and thanks for all the love and hugz from you lot, jeanne

((((((((((JEANNE)))))))))

Just know that we love you, Jeanne and we are holding you close. There's nothing anyone can say to take the pain away.

Come back to us when you are able. Email if you'd rather.

Just know that any one of us is more than willing to listen.

Cindy

Losing a loved one is difficult, but a young son makes it almost impossible. Healing thoughts are headed your way for you and your family.

Jeanne: You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. (((*nzl))) Pat

I am so sorry to hear about your son Jeanne. Truly the worse thing that could happen to any mum. My prayers and thoughts for you and your family at this very sad time. Hugs Elly

My Platinum Wings are on their way.

Cyberhugs and Butterfly Kisses Butterfly (And nzlstar knows what those are)

"nzlstar*" wrote in message news: snipped-for-privacy@p6g2000pre.googlegroups.com... On Mar 24, 10:11 am, Jenn in Tacoma wrote:

tahnks, jenn. i dont mind. i did post on facebook. just did the first one i went into that day. just returned from the funeral home to see tim. took gen and sam. we stayed a while. sam put his earphones from Ipod in Tims ears to listen to Miles Davis awhile. Tim would appreciate the idocy of doing that on someone who is no longer alive. i told tim to please please come back and haunt me or whatever you call it. told him to find his older brother (who will still be a baby wherever they go) grandma, grandpa, uncle larry and bring them all back for a visit. i'd love to see them all. tim is only 21yo. too young. its not right. kids are not supposed to leave first. i made gen and sam promise without fail that they will outlive me. if anything happens to either of them i'll be fast behind them as i can not cope with anymore close deaths in my lifetime. i've had more than my share. that is two of my kids gone now. two left. enough , no more. i just want my tim to come home. i want him back. i'm a frigg'n mess right now. we now have to wait about 34 months for the coroners inquest and go thru it all again. they did a full autopsy, not sure when that will be revealed. it was to check if the meningitis he had when 14yo (over the week of 9/11) had caused any brain damage we knew nothing about. also to check whatever. i hate all that shit. sorry folks but my language is blue at the best of times. right now i'm just a blubbering mess off and on thruout the day. also now waiting to see how long dh's mum will hang on to life. she is skin/bones, on morpine and dr says in a coma of sorts so how long she'll hang on is unknown. then we'll go thru all this over again. i just keep hugging my two kids now and they are good with that. they need'em too. then we all cry all over again. nothing more. he is gone. i want him back. he is loved and will be missed heaps. nothing more from me for who knows how long. later and thanks for all the love and hugz from you lot, jeanne

I'm so sorry to learn of your heartbreaking loss. Lynn (formerly of Boston)

So sorry Jeanne for your lose. I know words can not do any justice for what you deserve. Glad you are together with your family. We are all here to listen when you need us. Your family is in our prayers. Take Care Joanna Alberta

Jeanne, forgive me if this is insensitive, but what happened? How did Tim die? You are in my thoughts, prayers, hugs, and love. Know that.

Dreamweaver

"nzlstar*" wrote in message news: snipped-for-privacy@p6g2000pre.googlegroups.com... On Mar 24, 10:11 am, Jenn in Tacoma wrote:

tahnks, jenn. i dont mind. i did post on facebook. just did the first one i went into that day. just returned from the funeral home to see tim. took gen and sam. we stayed a while. sam put his earphones from Ipod in Tims ears to listen to Miles Davis awhile. Tim would appreciate the idocy of doing that on someone who is no longer alive. i told tim to please please come back and haunt me or whatever you call it. told him to find his older brother (who will still be a baby wherever they go) grandma, grandpa, uncle larry and bring them all back for a visit. i'd love to see them all. tim is only 21yo. too young. its not right. kids are not supposed to leave first. i made gen and sam promise without fail that they will outlive me. if anything happens to either of them i'll be fast behind them as i can not cope with anymore close deaths in my lifetime. i've had more than my share. that is two of my kids gone now. two left. enough , no more. i just want my tim to come home. i want him back. i'm a frigg'n mess right now. we now have to wait about 34 months for the coroners inquest and go thru it all again. they did a full autopsy, not sure when that will be revealed. it was to check if the meningitis he had when 14yo (over the week of 9/11) had caused any brain damage we knew nothing about. also to check whatever. i hate all that shit. sorry folks but my language is blue at the best of times. right now i'm just a blubbering mess off and on thruout the day. also now waiting to see how long dh's mum will hang on to life. she is skin/bones, on morpine and dr says in a coma of sorts so how long she'll hang on is unknown. then we'll go thru all this over again. i just keep hugging my two kids now and they are good with that. they need'em too. then we all cry all over again. nothing more. he is gone. i want him back. he is loved and will be missed heaps. nothing more from me for who knows how long. later and thanks for all the love and hugz from you lot, jeanne

Hey Dreamweaver -

They still don't know. She said something in her post that it could take up to 34 months ( I am so hoping that is a typo) to figure out what happened.

I'm sure she meant 3 to 4 months. I've never heard of autopsy taking more than 3 years to decide. Gen