My sad news

Oh Sabrina, I'm so sorry, I had hoped for the best from when I read about it. If there is any thing I can do let me know. I'll keep him and all of you in my thoughts.

Teresa in MD

Oh Sabrina, big, big hugs to you and yours. There are no words to ease your pain either. I will keep him and you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Oh Sabrina, I am sooo sorry to hear this news. I was hoping and praying for a more positve outcome. We will continue to pray for your family as you go through ths difficult time.

I'm sorry to hear this Sabrina, we were all praying for a better outcome from the test results. I will continue to keep you and yours in my thoughts and prayers. I pray also that your DB and his family may have the strength to pull together at this time of great sorrow. Much love to you all (((HUGS))),

{{{Sabrina}}}

:::sending lots of good thoughts to you & your family:::

Alicia

Oh Sabrina! I'm so very sorry :((( You and your family are on my prayer list and in my thoughts all the time. Please remember that for God nothing is impossible. Keep strong dear friend.

Huge Hugs Judy, SA

Thank you Mel, I am also praying for strength to be there for all of them. I seem to be the one in the family every one turns to and I have just gotten a little overwhelmed this year. Lots of things happening. I feel a little stronger today and tomorrow he and family are going to see their Oncologist to discuss a treatment plan. We all are vacillating between denial and disbelief,then acceptance and anger.

Hugs, Sabrina

Thank you Irene and Teresa. All thoughts and prayers are very welcome. I will try to keep in touch because you all are a comfort to me...but I am generally online in the wee hours when I cannot sleep.

Hugs, Sabrina

Thank you M-C. All of the words and prayers are received gladly. My nephew who is 20 is having such a hard time of this and he came by last night and we sat and he put his arms around me and finally cried. I told him to always come to me no matter what. My DD Kate talked with him also and related her experiences of how she felt when I was diagnosed with my breast cancer. She was just 15 and was so scared and angry. It was a tough time for her and it was a big comfort to him that what he is feeling is normal. I am thankful that my cancer was caught in time and with surgery and chemo, I have been here nine years this coming week. It is so hurtful that Jim really doesn't have many options. His treatment will be palliative...but we all believe in miracles. Another news I have received this week , if any of you remember, my ex-son in law's sister was diagnosed with inoperable brain tumor. She is now end stage and my ex called me to let me know he has just flown up to Pa to be with her and her family. We appreciate all of the prayers and good wishes you all sent for her and I am sure it is why she has made it to see her oldest daughter graduate from high school, which was her wish.

Hugs, Sabrina

Thank you so much Lorilee. I know we are all supportive of him and love him enough to see him through this. I have three other brothers and they are already being in touch and will come visit as often as they can. We are all a little scattered out but have a very strong family tie.

Hugs, Sabrina

Thank you Cec. Your prayers and thoughts are much appreciated.

Hugs, Sabrina

Thank you so much Alicia! It is truly appreciated.

Hugs, Sabrina

Sabrina.......I am so sorry to hear that your DB's news was not what you had all hoped for :( I am continuing to keep you all in my thoughts and sending you my best wishes! I am sure that you know that we are all here if you need to talk and feel you need our support. Somehow....we all find the strength needed in difficult times and I am sure that you will be a tower of strength for Jim and his nearest & dearest.

I just read this and I'm so sorry for you all! I will pray that you all have the strength to get you through the tough times ahead! Miracles do happen even though they may not always be what we want, they happen for a reason!(((HUGS))) Barb:o(

I'm usually on up to around 2-3am, so if you need to talk then, I'm here.

Teresa in MD

Sabrina, I wish we could all be more like you. I so admire your strngth and character, and by strength I don't mean absence of tears, but rather vision of what is best and acceptance of what happens. It is one of the hardest lessons to learn in life not to stay angry at the things one have no control over. Yet while it is normal and healthy to feel the anger, it is also so much easier on everyone when that anger can be identified for what it is and placed in its proper perspective. Life is too short to stay angry, too short for oneself and too short for those around us that we vent it on. We don't always understand why things happen which is immensely frustrating and many of us trun frustration into anger and then project it on others. That is something that somehow, I have never ever seen/felt/read you do. That is why you are such a steadying factor in everyone's lives, mine included.

Thank you for being you and being here for us all,