I closed the daycare last Thurs and Fri to take a four day weekend so the kids and I could go to Gattlinburg and my Mom has a stroke an hour before the daycare closes on Wed. I spend Wed night with her at ER for 4 hours and the cat-scan showed nothing so they sent her home. But, I knew there was something wrong because of her arm and leg - she was having so much trouble walking. She is extremely overweight and uses a cane - I felt they just brushed us off because they were so busy. I decided not to leave the area and canceled the trip. It was a good thing because it got worse the next day. She finally got a MRI because her doctor ordered it and it did show a stroke. Her arm and leg got worse and she can't walk at all now. After 3 days in the hospital she was transferred to the nursing home about 10-12 blocks from my house. They anticipate 6-8 weeks of therapy before she will be able to return home. At least the only things effected were her left arm and leg. Between working all day and splitting the evenings between the nursing home, two kids and their homework, scouts and trying to get a few hours sleep I'm exhausted. Leaving tomorrow afternooon for a three day camping trip (cabin) with my Girl Scout troop of 4th to 7th graders. The weather is suppose to be perfect for fall - 70's and partly cloudy. Great fall pictures....5 miles of hiking trails in a secure/ private (scout) campground. I finally get to rest. The girls are great and so are my assistant leaders. See you when I get back. Sandy
Off for the weekend
Nov 04, 2005
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So sorry to hear about your mom Sandy. But I'm glad she's getting the care she needs. You take care of yourself this weekend! Sometimes we spend all our energy taking care of our families that we forget ourselves. Have a restful weekend, and take lots of pics! :-)
{{HUGS}} So glad your mom's dr. ordered the MRI. At least you DM is just a few blocks from your home and you don't have to travel a great distance to be with her. She will get better with the therapy. You rest this weekend and have fun with the girls! It's very important that with all that is going on you take care of yourself. You can't take care of everyone else if you don't take care of you. You must take care of the one that takes care of everyone else. Trust me, I know. I'll keep your DM in my prayers for a quick recovery.
Boy what an unexpected turn life can take! I'm glad your mom can go somewhere where she can get the help she needs! Have fun on your camping trip it sounds like you need something fun right about now, enjoy! Barb:o) p.s. I will keep all involved in my thoughts and prayers!
I'm so sorry to hear about your mom's stroke. My prayers are with her for a speedy recovery. Take care of yourself and enjoy your camping trip.
Sandy, So sorry to hear of your Mom's illness ! You seem to have a lot on your plate so do remember to take care of YOU. We all care about you,too. Hope the camping is fun and maybe relaxing.
I am really sorry to hear about your mom, Sandy! It is a good thing that you stuck around. How aweful that they didn't take her seriously when she went to the ER. They could have prevented further injury! Morons!
I hope that you have a great time with the scouts and that you come back a little less tired!
Hugs, M-C
Oh Sandy! You sure have a lot on your plate! I hope things quiet down a bit for you pretty soon. I will be keeping you and your Mom in my thoughts and prayers for speedy recovery and enjoy your weekend!
Judy, SA
Prayers for your mom, Sandy, and big hugs to you!! When it rains, it pours!! :*( Hang in there!
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