vj found this in rec.crafts.beads, from snipped-for-privacy@removedreamweaverstudio.com (Barbara Otterson) :
]He liked to keep others below him so that ]he could be king of the mountain. It's a common thread.
gods, i had an ex-husband like that. it took me seeing him doing it to my oldest to wake me up and throw him out.
----------- @vicki [SnuggleWench] (Books)