I'm a stay-at-home mom, too. The way I (and my husband) see it is that my presence in the home generates far more well-being for my family than my salary could ever have purchased - and I was well-paid as a controller. I suspect a great many two-career families would come to the same conclusion if they added it up:
Full-time nanny for two children Chef to create healthy, balanced individualized meal plans University-educated, bilingual tutor and personal educational advocate Laundry and shopping services Housecleaning service Yard service Routine maintenance and repairs Scheduling service and courier Private duty nurse Dog trainer
Plus, I don't have to "dress for success", with accompanying tremendous savings on wardrobe and drycleaning, I don't have to commute (huge savings in time, gasoline and depreciation on vehicle) and my stress level and that of my family is probably an entire order of magnitude lower.
Also, I get to sleep with my co-chairman of the board and nobody bats an eye.
Kathleen