I am sorry so many of you went through this with your parents (or just your mothers).
Thankfully my Mom showed us praise for any accomplishments we had. As most of you know, I write/wrote poetry. I was always my own worst critic, always thinking it could be better... but my Mom was my best critic, always thinking my poems were wonderful. In fact she even left a line in her will saying that she hoped I would see the day that my poems would be published.
She encouraged us all in things we enjoyed... like figure skating for my older sister and myself, ballet and public speaking for my older sister, hockey for my brother, etc. She even encouraged me when I wanted to take guitar lessons (which I found I didn't really care for after I took the lessons), and when I signed up to be a model (I changed my mind after getting into that for a few weeks, because I was so shy and felt that I just couldn't go out in front of crowds)... my Mom was understanding and didn't try to push me to stay with it... if it didn't make us happy, we weren't b*tched at to stick with it. Daddy was always a very quiet and shy man, so he found it difficult to express his feelings, but we always felt loved and knew that he was proud of us too.
I praise and encourage Matthew in the things he does, tries to do, or wants to do with his life (working toward having his own woodworking/cabinetmaking business)... and I'm sure that he will, in turn, pass on the same to his children some day. :o)
*hugs* Gemini