My sister in law and I speak a couple of times a week, but we don't see one another often, because I can't drive anymore. In fact, I haven't seen her or my brother in almost a year. But I did see them both last week, at my mother's house. I got to see my nieces as well, which was a treat.
Today, my sister in law called, as usual. But unlike our usual gossip about nothing, she had a touchy question. She started me by saying, "I don't want to insult you or anything..." (which means this is going to stink, no doubt about it)
"...But Kath, are you dying? I haven't seen you in so long, and I know that your mom and sister said you look rough, but we never thought you looked _that rough._ It's not all the weight you've gained - it's your color, your eyes, all your hair has fallen out, everything. You look really, really sick, like my mom did when she had cancer."
Man, talk about stuff you don't want to hear! I know that I look very different than I did even a few years ago, but oh boy. I don't even want to look in the mirror anymore.
Sigh,
Kathy N-V